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We’ve done a lot of episodes about dating in the past. We’ve actually done a few about dating with today’s guest! But we’ve recently had a bit of feedback that some of you in the dating scene are really struggling to find the motivation to keep dating at the moment. Some of you feel exhausted. Others feel a bit hopeless, and it turns out, you’re not alone. There has been a big cultural shift in what women want when it comes to dating and it’s got a trendy new name - “chalant dating”. To break it down with us we have friend of the podcast Logan Ury here! Logan is a Harvard trained behavioural scientist, dating expert, author, host of Netflix’s“The Later Daters,” and Hinge's lead Relationship Scientist. Logan has spent years and years unpacking the science behind dating and finding successful relationships. We speak about: The dating trends that we’re going to see in 2026 What is chalant dating? Why do we want chalant dating more than what a potential future partner might earn or even look like? Why there seems to be a mismatch in expectations between men and women The toilet paper test The actual green flags around planning energy we should look for What are the ‘successful’ people doing on dating apps at the moment? Do you feel like you’re ‘undateable?’ The steps you can take if you’re feeling burnout from dating The switch from a ‘soulmate’ mindset to a ‘work it out’ mindset How AI will change the dating landscape Summer dating trends, cuffing season and what we tend to see when it gets colder The most popular day of the year on dating apps is coming up really soon You can find more from Logan at her website and her Instagram You can read the whole report from Hinge here You can find some of our previous episodes with Logan cloud And here You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Hosted by Britt Hockley & Keeshia Pettit Produced by Keeshia Pettit Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford Recorded on Cammeraygal Land Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury is an internationally recognized expert on modern love. She’s the author of the Amazon #1 bestseller, How to Not Die Alone. As the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, Logan leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. After studying psychology at Harvard, she ran Google’s behavioral science team—the Irrational Lab. Logan lives in the Bay Area with her husband, Scott and her daughter. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: The science behind why dating is so hard How dating can be improved The Three Tendencies in Dating Why you shouldn’t be looking for the ‘spark’ How to stop searching for a prom date to find your life partner The biggest mistakes people make in dating Ways to make dating fun Buy How to Not Die Alone here : https://amzn.to/3vlbO2W Learn more at LoganUry.com or follow her @loganury ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at https://getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate

How do you go with small talk, keeping the conversation going and not feeling overwhelmed by matches and messages? Do you ever wonder how the people you’re matching with perceive you? I felt all of the above. I hated small talk and found it incredibly boring, I was constantly overwhelmed by the expectation to reply if I hadn’t checked my messages in a little while and I was always worried that I would appear ‘too intense’ to the people I had matched with and I tried to tone myself down so that they wouldn’t be scared off. Hinge recently conducted some research into dating and ADHD! They examined over 9000 daters on Hinge across the world with a clinical ADHD diagnosis to get a bit of a read of the room on how dating can affect us. Joining the podcast is Logan Ury; Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science. She’s a behavioural scientist turned dating coach and the author of the best-selling dating book, How to Not Die Alone. In today’s episode we talk: What people with ADHD tend to struggle with on the apps Why small talk is a huge hurdle for people with ADHD How to avoid small talk Masking and being scared of being viewed as ‘weird’ or unusual Shift vs support responses. What they are and how it will REALLY help people with ADHD Analysis paralysis and the paradox of choice You can find more from Logan Ury at her website and instagram You can read Hinge’s ADHD dating report See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back! Today we’re joined by Logan Ury, behavioral scientist turned dating coach, director of relationship science at Hinge, and bestselling author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love . What we talk about: Logan’s experience as the dating coach on Netflix’s The Later Daters Pros and cons of dating 55+ Hinge’s latest features and how to use them to attract better matches Logan’s top tips for a great dating app profile Logan’s research on the three dating tendencies and how it helped me meet my boyfriend Things you should do before defining the relationship How to have the “what are we” talk without saying “what are we” How to tell someone you don’t like the way they kiss & more! You can find Logan on Instagram @loganury and purchase her book everywhere books are sold. Learn your dating tendency here and sign up for Logan's newsletter here . Listen to our previous episode with Logan Ury: Episode 81. How To Not Die Alone . As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Ready to Level Up Your Dating Game? It’s time to make dating exciting again with First Round’s On Me! Discover real, meaningful connections that go beyond the small talk. ⁠⁠⁠Grab a FREE month of FROM’s premium Terracotta subscription⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with the code MOSTLYDATING.

Dating Coach, Hinge Relationship Science expert, and friend of the pod Logan Ury (@loganury) is here to help J & J answer the question haunting single women everywhere: Where are all the guys?!? Her new Netflix show “The Later Daters,” where she coaches singles over 55 on how to get back in the dating scene, is now streaming – and proving that some dating struggles never change, even with age. They really dig into Logan’s 2025 passion projects: the gender imbalance in dating, the need for male support networks, and how we can improve the male end of the dating pool. We hear from one listener who wants to know if being single for years makes them undateable, but Logan’s here to assure us all that it’s never too late to find love. All of this tees up Monday’s special Benefits episode: Logan coaching Jared, on air, no holding back. You won’t want to miss it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Rom Com Vom , DB and the incredible Logan Ury , dating coach and author, break down You've Got Mail , the 1998 rom-com that taught us all to fall in love through email (or did it?). They dive into the film's exploration of online romance, corporate takeovers, and questionable meet-cute ethics, discussing what still warms our hearts and what belongs in the trash folder. —— Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge's Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She also writes the popular weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. —— SEXUAL HEALTH PROS! Check out DB's workshop: Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand ( https://www.sexedwithdb.com/workshop ). Want to get in touch with Sex Ed with DB? Email us at sexedwithdb@gmail.com . —— Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb Twitter : @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch ! Sign up for our newsletter with BTS content and exclusive giveaways here . —— About Sex Ed with DB : Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. —— Sex Ed with DB, Rom Com Vom Team : Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Producer: Sadie Lidji Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Content Creation: Mitch Coburn and Emm-Kirsty Fraser

It's Chit Chat Wednesday and we have dating expert, Logan Ury ! Jared and Logan dive into the complexities of dating, discussing how it can often feel situation-dependent. They explore how people’s romantic behaviors can shift based on specific interactions, with Jared reflecting on how two seemingly similar dates can result in very different outcomes. Logan suggests that sometimes we get too caught up in making assumptions, noting that people often make decisions based on incomplete information, such as whether to kiss on the first date. Jared shares his frustration with how dating can feel like a "silly dance" of coy behavior, contrasting this with the more open and sex-forward experience he’s had on some dates. He admits feeling embarrassment when misreading situations despite being a dating expert, which leads to self-reflection. Logan offers a broader perspective, explaining that more transparency in dating would help, likening it to a process of matchmaking where a third party provides critical information. They also discuss how dating apps give some insight, but there’s still a lack of full clarity, often leading to confusion and making people disposable. Logan encourages people to go beyond the surface, suggesting that spending more time with someone might reveal the deeper "iceberg" of their personality. Jared agrees but acknowledges the discomfort of confronting his assumptions. The episode also includes a conversation about Jared's experiences post-Netflix fame, where he touches on the awkward dynamics of receiving invitations for drinks from fans in different cities. While Jared enjoys socializing after shows, he admits to a struggle between temptation and wanting a meaningful connection, all while dealing with the pressure of public expectations. They discuss how dating apps and first-date norms can feel frustrating or limiting, especially when personal preferences and sexual boundaries come into play. Jared reflects on two recent dates: one that felt more sex-forward and liberating, and another where the traditional "no kiss on the first date" boundary left him feeling out of sync with his date. Logan compares this to the structure of Orthodox matchmaking, where clear communication and third-party guidance help navigate such situations, and suggests that in dating, assumptions often obscure understanding. They both emphasize that more dates and open conversations are needed, rather than relying solely on information upfront. Jared humorously touches on his life post-Netflix fame, grappling with dating expectations while on tour, where fans reach out but often misread his willingness to engage romantically. The episode also includes lighthearted moments about feeling awkward in dating ! It's a fun relatable episode that you don't want to miss! SUPPORT THE SHOW, SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS!🙌 indochino 👉

In this episode, Jeff talks with Logan Ury, a brilliant behavioral scientist, author, and dating coach. Logan, who heads up Relationship Science at Hinge and penned How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love , is like your BFF who also happens to have a degree in dating. She breaks down the three dating tendencies, helping us figure out what might be getting in the way of our love lives. She tells us why we should say f*ck the spark—Logan's all about the slow burn of real connection. Plus, she and Jeff tackle the art of the breakup, because let's face it, we could all use some tips on how to do that gracefully. Join Jeff and Logan for a candid chat that'll leave you feeling like you just had a heart-to-heart with your smartest friends about love, life, and everything in between. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/ Get your copy of Big Dating Energy !

Logan Ury helps Glennon’s former husband and co-parent, Craig Melton, navigate the wild world of dating as a grown up: How to identify your patterns that aren’t working for you; how to know if something’s really a deal breaker; why dating in your twenties is like “start-up” while dating later in life is a “merger”; an honest audit of Craig’s online dating profile; how to ensure you’re meeting who you want to meet; and how Craig factors whether or not Glennon and Abby will like who he’s dating. About Logan: Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She runs an online community through her weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google’s behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott. TW: @loganury IG: @loganury IG: @craigmelton14

How the hell do grown ups date and make friends? Behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury is here to help us make dating and meeting new friends easier: how to identify what you really want; why we should stop searching for “the spark”; why we keep going after the same people that are wrong for us; how to talk to our kids about their first love experiences; why we need to have “other significant others”; and the eight questions you should ask yourself after meeting anyone new. About Logan: Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She runs an online community through her weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google’s behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott. TW: @loganury IG: @loganury Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/life-s-fine-print--7358435/support .

Talia chats with Logan Ury, dating coach and behavioral scientist at hinge. They answer questions about how Logan got into the industry, dying alone, how dating has changed over the years, Logan's book, and so much more. Connect with Logan: loganury.com IG: @loganury Check out Logan's book, How to Not Die Alone , here . https://www.amazon.com/How-Not-Die-Alone-Surprising/dp/1982120622/ref=as_li_ss_tl?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1603216350&sr=8-2&linkCode=sl1&tag=loganury-20&linkId=fa9564cbd4d496dfc6d90e077b24c528&language=en_US Connect with Talia: taliabombola.com therapywithtalia.com IG: @taliabombola

First impressions matter but when it comes to dating, don't get blown away by the myth of the "relationship spark". Some people can instead be characterized as a "slow burn"; a person who you like more and more each time. We revisit an episode with dating coach, behavioral scientist and author of How Not To Die Alone, Logan Ury about how to date successfully. Logan Ury studied psychology at Harvard, was a TED Fellow, then became a behavioral scientist at Google, where she ran Google’s behavioral science team – which we now know as The Irrational Lab. She became a dating coach and is currently the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, where she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. Her work has appeared in The New York Times and The Atlantic , among a variety of media outlets, including HBO and the BBC. Aside from those cool things, we wanted to talk to her because she is the author of How To Not Die Alone . In our conversation with Logan, which was originally recorded in early 2021, we talk about the challenges people face in getting prepared for dating, making the most of their dating experiences, and maintaining great relationships once they’ve landed in one. She shared her insights into how to overcome some of the common hurdles and to make the most out of each phase of the dating life. We had an interesting discussion about why moving from ‘romanticizer’ or ‘maximizer’ to ‘satisficer’ can make a big difference in your relationships (and in life). We talk about the Monet Effect and how we need to work hard to overcome some of our biggest biases – like the fundamental attribution error and negativity bias. She was also kind enough to share a little bit about her communal living conditions and her recommendation that we all need more significant others – OSO’s – in these turbulent times. NOTE #1: The “ F” word features prominently in our conversation since it’s in the title of one of her book’s chapters. NOTE #2: Christina Gravert joined for our Grooving Session as our first-ever Grooving Partner, and you’ll hear her in the introduction, as well. We’re pleased that our good friend was named by Forbes magazine as one of the top behavioral scientists you ought to know. Christina teaches Economics at the University of Copenhagen, is a co-founder of Impactually, a behavioral consultancy, she has been a guest on Behavioral Grooves ( episode 16 on creating a Nudge-A-Thon), and was a speaker at Nudge.It North 2021 . © 2023 Behavioral Grooves Links Logan Ury: https://www.loganury.com/ “How to Not Die Alone”: https://amzn.to/3JSmDUz Ira Glass: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ira_Glass Dan Ariely: https://danariely.com/ Esther Perel: https://www.estherperel.com/ John Gottman, The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/ Eli Finkel: https://elifinkel.com/ Daniel Gilbert: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Gilbert_(psychologist) Jane Ebert: https://www.brandeis.edu/facultyguide/person.html?emplid=0fd6834b65b0eddec69f2ab77539fd341d63b270

Hey lifers! Today we take a deep dive into the controversy surrounding the latest campaign from Balenciaga. When a brand so consistently flirts with provocative content, are we surprised that they cross the line into child exploitation? When towing the line where fashion meets political/social issues and pushes the boundaries of what is and isn't acceptable, when does a brand go too so far that they risk being entirely 'cancelled?' We unpack whether it's plausible for a brand as big as Balenciaga to have not been across these campaign decisions and how they've benefited so much from similar decisions in the past. Then we are joined by the wonderful Logan Ury! Logan is an author and the behavioural scientist at hinge! She joins Britt and producer Keeshia today to talk all things f*ckboys/f*ckgirls and explain how the concept of the sunk cost fallacy can be applied to relationships. You can find everything from Logan (including the newsletter that producer Keeshia raves about) here: https://www.loganury.com/ This episode was brought to you by our wonderful sponsor Dr Lewinn's marine collagen peptide + inner beauty range. We know you guys love a discount code so if you jump on to https://www.drlewinns.com.au/ you can use the code UNCUT20 for 20% off all products! T&CS: To participate apply the qualifying coupon code during checkout to receive the 20% discount off order total (including GST). All orders placed with a qualifying coupon code and qualifying Dr. LeWinn's products during the promotional period will be eligible to receive discount. Promotion valid from November 29th 2022 at 00:01 AEDT concludes on January 29th 2023 at 23.59 AEDT . Postage options are not included in the order subtotal. Offer valid only while stock lasts and not applicable to cancelled orders due to out-of-stock merchandise. Discount not applicable with returned merchandise; total value of discount will be deducted from the value of any returned items. Limit of one discounted transaction per customer. Gift sets are excluded from this promotion. Offer available online only. Customer is responsible for shipping costs for returned merchandise. Cannot be used in conjunction with any other offer. Only available on drlewinns.com.au . Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because we love love! xx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Thinking of setting your dating profile picture to one of you with dead fish? Well, we have some advice for you: don’t! On this episode of BFBA, Logan Ury, dating expert and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, joins the show to answer listener questions all about navigating the oh-so-confusing world of modern dating. From ditching your “type,” to avoiding being ghosted, to online stalking before a first date (at least ask your mom to use an incognito window), Logan has all the answers. Plus, Stevie breaks down the latest internet celesbian drama (um, have you seen the music video?), and the trio plays a round of Pet Peeve vs. Dealbreaker. Where To Find Logan Ury: Social Handle: @loganury Website: loganury.com Learn more about her dating bootcamp: https://www.loganury.com/coaching Take her Three Dating Tendencies Quiz: https://www.loganury.com/quiz Pre-order We’re Still Good, our new party game that laughs in the face of disaster here!: https://a.co/d/301Bd6C Shop sike.la , drop in “BFBAMADEYOULOOK” at checkout, and enjoy 10% off your whole purchase! Get your tickets now for Good Mythical Evening 2022, live this year exclusively on Moment House! Click here to find out more: https://mythic.al/BFBAGME To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week, Maria talks with Logan Ury! The two talk about everything from her recent wedding, how time is different in online dating apps, the science behind online dating and even circumcision. (Seriously!) Plus the two talk about how to really have deep, compelling conversations early on in dating.Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone. She works as Hinge's Director of Relationship Science, conducting research into modern dating. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google's behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott. Sign up for Logan's weekly newsletter and learn about her online courses at https://www.loganury.com/ Pick up Logan's book, How to Not Die Alone, here. Follow Logan on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/loganury/ Want to join the community? Sign up for an Agape Intensive at http://agapeintensive.com Join Maria and the crew in Mexico! Register at http://agapeescapes.com Follow Maria on Instagram to know when the Ask a Matchmaker Hotline will open again for calls! http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria To learn more about how Maria and her team can help you, visit http://agapematch.com

We’ve spent a lot of time on the podcast exploring how we can improve our skills in romantic relationships, but for many people one of the most difficult parts of a relationship is getting into one in the first place. On this episode, Forrest talks with Logan Ury, Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, about the psychology of dating. They explore chemistry, romance, apps, and how to reframe our self-limiting tendencies so we can find love that is fulfilling and brings out the best in us. About our Guest: Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach, and the author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love . She is the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, and former head of Google’s behavioral science team the Irrational Lab. Watch the Episode: Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube . Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 1:40: Why is modern dating so hard? 4:15: Romanticism 6:20: Being in a relationship for self-actualization 8:25: Romanticizers, Maximizers, and Hesitators 11:15: Reframes for the Romanticizer 14:20: What kind of shared qualities actually matter? 19:25: Reframes for the Maximizer 26:35: The tendency to externalize problems and avoid vulnerability 32:25: Reframes for the Hesitator 36:50: Information vs. emotion - appreciation for romance 41:05: Bids, and turning towards 43:05: What other things do people tend to underestimate in relationships? 47:20: The aspect of you that is brought out by your partner 48:45: How to use apps in more effective ways 51:00: Recap Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Have a question for us? Email: contact@beingwellpodcast.com to submit questions or potential topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes. Sponsors: Visit Pendulumlife.com and use code BEINGWELL for 20% off your first month of membership. Join over a million people using BetterHelp , the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month! Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription. Connect with the show: Subscribe on iTunes Follow Forrest on YouTube Follow us on Instagram Follow Forrest on Instagram Follow Rick on Facebook Follow Forrest on Facebook Visit Forrest's website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the second episode of our DATING series, STYLE Canada is here to help you navigate your love life by bringing in dating experts. For this episode, we have invited a behavioural scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury. Logan is the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, author of the best-selling dating book How to Not Die Alone , and the host of the podcast This is Dating . Elise sat down with Logan to talk about all things dating from chemistry on the first date to setting up your expectations. Drawing from years of research, Logan unravels the hidden forces that cause dating mistakes. Check out Logan’s Three Dating Tendencies quiz on loganury.com/quiz This episode is brought to you by Smithery Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On Today’s episode I’m joined by behavioral scientist, dating coach, author, and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury. We discuss how Logan helped me change my bad dating habits, how she initially friendzoned her now-husband for years until a dating coach helped her realize he was what she was looking for, why you need accountability partners to achieve your dating goals, the importance of having “Other Significant Others," and why our partner can’t be our go-to person for everything. Logan shares her advice for people who feel like they’ve tried everything, but it’s just not working out for them. Logan’s announcing her next cohort for her course Date Smarter in the next few days. Add your email here to be the first to hear about it. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

Partner Deals Long Angle: Join a free private community for high net worth investors Quince: Affordable luxury essentials with free shipping + 365 day returns LMNT: ⁠Free sample pack of my favorite electrolyte drink mix Fora: Become a Fora Advisor today Bilt Rewards: ⁠Earn the most valuable points when you pay rent For all the deals, discounts and promo codes from our partners, go to: allthehacks.com/deals #29: Bestselling author and relationship expert Logan Ury joins Chris to discuss the science behind successful relationships. They discuss how to build relationships that last a lifetime, how to apply relationship science to professional relationships, and how to make sure you have a fulfilling marriage once you find a partner that is right for you. Logan Ury ( @loganury ) is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling book How to Not Die Alone . She is also the director of relationship science at the dating app Hinge. Previously, she ran Google’s behavioral science team (The Irrational Lab). “Love is natural, but dating is not” - Logan Ury Full show notes available at: https://allthehacks.com/lasting-relationships-logan-ury/ Partner Deals For all the deals, discounts and promo codes from our partners, go to: allthehacks.com/deals Resources Mentioned Connect with Logan Ury: Website | Twitter | Instagram Logan Ury’s Book: How to Not Die Alone Find your dating tendency: Quiz Relationship contract: Google Doc Template Notable relationship researchers: Eli Finkel | Dr. John and Julie Gottman Friendship in the age of loneliness by Adam Smiley Poswolsky: Book Full Show Notes (00:14) Who Is Logan Ury? (01:32) Why She Titled Her Book “How To Not Die Alone” (02:38) Does Being in a Relationship Improve Your Life According to Research? (03:13) Why Logan Ury Went From Behavioral Scientist to Dating Coach (04:33) Dating Is a Relatively New Phenomenon, How Does That Affect Us? (05:50) Do Arranged Marriages and Set-Ups Work? (08:54) Does Having More Options Make Dating Harder? (11:00) Why the Idea of ‘The One’ or Having a Soul Mate Is a Harmful Idea (12:02) How to Transition From a Maximizer to a Satisficer Personality in Dating (14:08) The Three Dating Tendencies (Which One Are You?) (17:59) Why Don’t We Ever Learn About How to Date Better? (19:40) Which Couples Are Most Likely to Break Up (According to Relationship Scientists) (22:42) Can You Learn to Have More Successful Relationships? (24:23) Four Ways Relationship Science Can Level Up Your Professional Relationships (29:13) Why You Should Stop Sea

#29: Bestselling author and relationship expert Logan Ury joins Chris to discuss the science behind successful relationships. They discuss how to build relationships that last a lifetime, how to apply relationship science to professional relationships, and how to make sure you have a fulfilling marriage once you find a partner that is right for you. Logan Ury ( @loganury ) is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling book How to Not Die Alone . She is also the director of relationship science at the dating app Hinge. Previously, she ran Google’s behavioral science team (The Irrational Lab). “Love is natural, but dating is not” - Logan Ury Full show notes available at: https://allthehacks.com/lasting-relationships-logan-ury/ Partner Deals For all the deals, discounts and promo codes from our partners, go to: allthehacks.com/deals Resources Mentioned Connect with Logan Ury: Website | Twitter | Instagram Logan Ury’s Book: How to Not Die Alone Find your dating tendency: Quiz Relationship contract: Google Doc Template Notable relationship researchers: Eli Finkel | Dr. John and Julie Gottman Friendship in the age of loneliness by Adam Smiley Poswolsky: Book Full Show Notes (00:14) Who Is Logan Ury? (01:32) Why She Titled Her Book “How To Not Die Alone” (02:38) Does Being in a Relationship Improve Your Life According to Research? (03:13) Why Logan Ury Went From Behavioral Scientist to Dating Coach (04:33) Dating Is a Relatively New Phenomenon, How Does That Affect Us? (05:50) Do Arranged Marriages and Set-Ups Work? (08:54) Does Having More Options Make Dating Harder? (11:00) Why the Idea of ‘The One’ or Having a Soul Mate Is a Harmful Idea (12:02) How to Transition From a Maximizer to a Satisficer Personality in Dating (14:08) The Three Dating Tendencies (Which One Are You?) (17:59) Why Don’t We Ever Learn About How to Date Better? (19:40) Which Couples Are Most Likely to Break Up (According to Relationship Scientists) (22:42) Can You Learn to Have More Successful Relationships? (24:23) Four Ways Relationship Science Can Level Up Your Professional Relationships (29:13) Why You Should Stop Searching for a ‘Spark’ (31:44) Looking for a Life Partner, Not a Prom Date (34:13) Why You Need a Relationship Contract (And Other Hacks for Married Couples) (39:40) Why You Should Have Other Significant Others (44:10) How Logan Ury Wrote Her Book and Overcame Procrastination (46:30) Should You Write a Book? (48:09) Logan’s Goals for 2022 (49:25) What Does Logan Ury Think of Dating Apps? (50:59) How Can You Make Friends as an Adult? (53:18) How to Connect With Logan Ury Connect with All the Hacks All the Hacks: Newsletter | Website | <a href="http

Kim (@kimmurstein) and Grandma Gail talk to Logan Ury, the director of relationship science at Hinge and author of the book ‘How to Not Die Alone’, and her mother-in-law therapist Dr. Cynthia Mayer. They each discuss how they met their husbands, and whether meeting in an organic or romantic way is any better than meeting … Excuse My Grandma As We Hear How To Not Die Alone (Ft. Logan Ury & Dr. Cynthia Mayer) Read More »

On this week’s Sunday Special episode, Logan Ury, author of How To Not Die Alone and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, is back to share more wisdom with Jared and Jordana. They start out with a discussion about post-pandemic dating from Logan’s research at Hinge and how it might be different from what “shot girl summer” predicted. Then, they discuss why we often look over the consistent, “nice” person and tips for going on dates the right way. Finally, they answer an email from a listener who isn’t sure if she wants to stay with her boyfriend of 5 years, and Logan gives advice on how to know if you’re settling or not. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kimmy and Liza are joined by LOGAN URY, behavioral dating scientist, dating coach, and author of HOW TO NOT DIE ALONE. They talk about the ways in which human behavior is different when we're dating, the difference between standards and unrealistic expectations, how to know when to break up, and how to not pay too much attention to the "spark." Follow Logan on Instagram and Twitter @LoganUry and buy 'How to Not Die Alone' anywhere you get your books. Follow us @51FirstDatesPod on Instagram! Send your worst first date stories to 51firstdatespod@gmail.com . Subscribe to our Substack at https://preciousgems.substack.com/. And don't forget to join our secret Facebook group! We're in the top 15 podcasts on Feedspot! Get new undies at shoprobynro.com and use code 51firstdates for 10% off! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ali & Roark could not be more excited to have Logan Ury on the podcast this week. Logan is a behavioral scientist, dating coach, and author of How to Not Die Alone. Basically, Logan gives Ali & Roark a coaching session as they talk through the three common dating tendencies that may be holding people back, how to keep your standards high while optimizing your search for the traits that really matter, and how to say "f*ck the spark" and find a life partner rather than a prom date. Before they talk to Logan, Ali & Roark catch up to discuss men who can't seem to make a plan for a date and why Ali lost her voice. Follow Logan on Instagram @loganury and find all her information including ordering her book How to Not Die Alone at: https://www.loganury.com/ Timestamps: the Logan Ury interview begins at 20:21 If you want to send in a "weird or nah" suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Our Sponsors: * Check out Kensington Publishing: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist-turned dating coach and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science. She recently published How to Not Die Alone – a fantastic book on the surprising science that will help you find love. We speak about all things behavioral science and modern love, including how Hinge designs the app to be deleted and common cognitive biases in dating. We also talk about how Logan became the lead of Google’s behavioral science and was later able to build a successful career combining her passion for behavioral science and relationship science. Hope you love it! Links and resources: Logan's website Social media: LinkedIn , Twitter & Instagram Logan's book: How to Not Die Alone The Three Dating Tendencies Quiz Modern Love - New York Times article by Logan OKcupid Experiment Rom-Com recommendation: Hitch Support the podcast by joining Habit Weekly Pro 🚀 The song used is Murgatroyd by David Pizzaro.

How is love and dating changing how we experience our cities? On this episode of The Future City Podcast we speak with dating coach, author and behavioral scientist Logan Ury. Logan is the author of How to Not Die Alone and is the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge. Logan speaks with us about our relationship tendencies, her favorite city and why the spark is useless and sometimes even destructive. Logan is a Harvard trained behavioral scientist turned dating coach. She is the author of How To Not Die Alone and is the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge. In a former life, she ran Google’s behavioral science team—the Irrational Lab.

Logan Ury studied psychology at Harvard, was a TED Fellow, then became a behavioral scientist at Google, where she ran Google’s behavioral science team – which we now know as The Irrational Lab. She became a dating coach and is currently the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, where she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. Her work has appeared in The New York Times and The Atlantic , among a variety of media outlets, including HBO and the BBC. And you should note that she’s a featured speaker at SXSW 2021. Aside from those cool things, we wanted to talk to her because she is the author of How To Not Die Alone . In our conversation with Logan, we talked about the challenges people face in getting prepared for dating, making the most of their dating experiences, and maintaining great relationships once they’ve landed in one. She shared her insights into how to overcome some of the common hurdles and to make the most out of each phase of the dating life. We had an interesting discussion about why moving from ‘romanticizer’ or ‘maximizer’ to ‘satisficer’ can make a big difference in your relationships (and in life). We talked about the Monet Effect and how we need to work hard to overcome some of our biggest biases – like the fundamental attribution error and negativity bias. She was also kind enough to share a little bit about her communal living conditions and her recommendation that we all need more significant others – OSO’s – in these turbulent times. NOTE #1: The “ F” word features prominently in our conversation since it’s in the title of one of her book’s chapters. NOTE #2: Christina Gravert joined for our Grooving Session as our first-ever Grooving Partner, and you’ll hear her in the introduction, as well. We’re pleased that our good friend was named by Forbes magazine as one of the top behavioral scientists you ought to know. Christina teaches Economics at the University of Copenhagen, is a co-founder of Impactually, a behavioral consultancy, she has been a guest on Behavioral Grooves (episode 16 on creating a Nudge-A-Thon), and was a speaker at Nudge.It North 2021. © 2021 Behavioral Grooves Links Logan Ury: https://www.loganury.com/ “How to Not Die Alone”: https://www.loganury.com/book Ira Glass: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ira_Glass Dan Ariely: https://danariely.com/ Esther Perel: https://www.estherperel.com/ John Gottman, The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/ Eli Finkel: https://elifinkel.com/ Daniel Gilbert: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Gilbert_(psychologist) Jane Ebert: https://www.brandeis.edu/facultyguide/person.html?emplid=0fd6834b65b0eddec69f2ab77539fd341d63b270 Alain De Botton “School of Life”: https://www.theschooloflife.com/about-us/faculty/alain-de-botton/ Reiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reiki “Algorithms to Live By”: https://algorithmstoliveby.com/ John Nash “A Beautiful Mind”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Forbes_Nash_Jr . Nicole Prause: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nicole_P

Ever wished you could apply scientific principles to dating? Then you'll love this episode. Behavioral scientist and author of recent Amazon best-seller How to Not Die Alone, Logan Ury draws from social science on sex & relationships, as well as best practices from behavioral science to answer questions like: Should I give up on someone if I don't feel the "spark" right away? (i.e. not even go on a second date) What are the most important attributes I should look for if I want a healthy, happy relationship? How do I sort through all the many choices on the dating apps to find worthwhile matches? (This is especially interesting, since Ury now works for dating app Hinge) All this, plus Ury outlines the 3 different categories she has repeatedly seen in different daters (essentially the "3 types" of daters.) Which one are you? Whether you're single or in a couple at the moment, you'll get a lot out of this lively scientific discussion on sex, dating, relationships, and love -- and you might even learn How to Not Die Alone.

Behavioural scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury knows how to sustain lasting and happy relationships. And now she's written a book with her findings: How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. In this interview with Medcan psychology team lead Dr. Jack Muskat, Ury helps listeners understand their romantic tendencies. She also provides research-based tips on how we all can find and nurture connections with loved ones.

On this week’s Sunday Special J&J are joined by Logan Ury, behavioral scientist, dating coach, and the author of How To Not Die Alone. They talk about how Logan uses her behavioral science background to better understand relationships, including some tips for how to figure out the age in which you should settle down. They discuss the three dating tendencies everyone should be aware of, how to identify our dating blindspots, and why it’s time to say “f*ck the spark” and just commit to a second date. Plus, she confirms one of Jared’s long-running theories about breakups. Then Logan tells the story of how she and her partner took on a health crisis, put on an impromptu wedding ceremony, and moved into a commune. Finally, a listener writes in to ask whether or not her relationship is struggling due to the pandemic, or if it’s a sign of a deeper problem. They discuss the best way to identify whether or not the person you’re dating is right for you long term. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices