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Continuing their listener Q&A conversation, John and Stasi respond to questions on topics such as discernment, spiritual warfare, and what it means to mature in our walk with Jesus and caring for our souls in a demanding world. With honesty, and wisdom, they explore how Jesus meets us in the realities of everyday life—inviting us beyond fear, pressure, and striving into greater freedom, maturity, and intimacy with Him. Wherever you find yourself today, may this conversation awaken fresh hope and draw you further into the presence, Love, and Hope of Jesus. ….. SH...

Continuing their listener Q&A conversation, John and Stasi respond to questions on topics such as discernment, spiritual warfare, and what it means to mature in our walk with Jesus and caring for our souls in a demanding world. With honesty, and wisdom, they explore how Jesus meets us in the realities of everyday life—inviting us beyond fear, pressure, and striving into greater freedom, maturity, and intimacy with Him. Wherever you find yourself today, may this conversation awaken fresh hope and draw you further into the presence, Love, and Hope of Jesus. ….. SH...

In this episode, we welcome author, counselor, and speaker John Eldredge to the show, who is best known for his book Wild at Heart. We have a powerful conversation about intimacy with God in a world full of chaos, suffering, and spiritual hunger. We reflect on what it means to reclaim a "re-enchanted" Christian worldview, how to pray against chaos, the profound gift women have to offer the world right now. We also talk practically about how to pray as a couple, ask John to lead us in a guided "Pause" prayer, and invite you into a moment of stillness, surrender, and loving awareness of Jesus dwelling within you. Heather's One Thing - Midst from the Belonging Co. Sister Miriam's One Thing - The Story I'll Tell by Naomi Raine Michelle's One Thing - The Way of Trust and Love by Father Jacques Philippe Michelle's Other One Thing - Jayber Crow by Wendell Berry John's One Thing - The Abiding Together Podcast! John's Other One Thing - William Augusto Instrumental Background Music Other Resources Mentioned: The Pause App John Eldredge's Website " Wild at Heart " Waking the Dead by John Eldredge The Sacred Romance by John Eldredge Experience Jesus. Really. by John Eldredge Announcement: Our 2026 Lenten book study will be " The Way of Trust and Love " by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks! Journal Questions: How am I living like a "practical atheist"? Where are you experiencing chaos in your domain? When in your day can you turn toward the Lord with a simple prayer? How have I experienced the friendship and communion of the Kingdom of Heaven in my life? Where in my life am I believing I am too much and not enough? Discussion Questions: How would you define your domain? What has God entrusted to you? When have you experienced God's beauty and order in the midst of chaos and hatred? How have simple prayers led to transformation in your life? How is God inviting you to be a healing remedy to the world right now? Quote to Ponder: "The story of your life is the story of the long and brutal assault on your heart by the one who knows what you could be and fears it." (John Eldredge, Waking the Dead) <p

We're living in a time that's quietly—but profoundly—reshaping our souls. Formed by a world of speed, efficiency, and endless information, most of us have been trained to seek quick answers, avoid ambiguity, and live with the belief that if we just do X, then Y will happen. It's not our fault—we've been discipled by our cultural moment, where data is king and mystery is often treated with suspicion. In the process, many of us have come to approach faith with an overdeveloped left brain—craving clarity and control, while growing uncomfortable with the unknown, the mystical, the experiential. And yet… something deeper in us still longs for more. In this episode, Dr. Dan Allender is joined by psychologist and New York Times Bestselling Author John Eldredge to explore the themes of John's new book, "Experience Jesus. Really." Together, they offer a timely, tender invitation: to recover a life with God that is not only true, but felt—a life rooted in presence, wonder, and communion. This conversation explores: Why our modern world makes it hard to access the presence of God The invitation to become an "ordinary mystic"—someone who experiences God from the inside out What it means to live as an "amphibious" being, rooted in both the physical and spiritual How the presence of Jesus brings refuge, healing, and integration—especially in trauma Why this isn't just for the spiritual elite—but for all of us, here and now John draws from the wisdom of Christian mystics, scripture, and his own story to illuminate what it means to truly walk with Jesus today—in your body, your story, and your real life. If you've ever found yourself saying, "I want to experience more of God, but I don't know how"—we invite you to listen to this episode. Listener Resources: Be sure to check out John Eldredge's latest book, "Experience Jesus. Really." here: https://wildatheart.org/books/experience-jesus-really Revisit the webinar, "The Power of Jesus in Therapeutic Practice" with Dan Allender and John Eldredge, to discover how to authentically integrate best practices with the healing power and loving care of God in your therapy practice: https://online.theallendercenter.org/courses/stories-that-shape-us-the-power-of-jesus-in-therapeutic-practice

John Eldredge is a New York Times bestselling author, counselor, and teacher who has inspired millions to go deeper in their relationship with Jesus. He is also president of Wild at Heart, a ministry devoted to helping people discover the heart of God, recover their own hearts in God’s love, and learn to live in God’s kingdom. John and his wife, Stasi, live in Colorado Springs, Colorado. His new book, Experience Jesus. Really. is available now. Links Reconnecting with God as a Distracted Church Leader | An Interview with John Eldredge Helping Others Restore Personal Worship & Connection with God | An Interview with John Eldredge Experience Jesus. Really: Finding Refuge, Strength, and Wonder through Everyday Encounters with God Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul WildatHeart.org Share your thoughts in the Leading Saints community. Transcript coming soon Get 14-day access to the Core Leader Library Highlights John shares insights from his extensive background as a therapist and author. He encourages listeners to embrace a more experiential relationship with God. John argues that many Christians overlook the importance of intimacy with the divine, often focusing too heavily on intellectual understanding. By inviting God into everyday decisions, individuals can cultivate a deeper spiritual life and seek joy and connection with God in their daily lives. 01:50 – Introduction of John Eldredge 02:30 – John’s Background and Work 04:00 – Impact of “Wild at Heart” 05:00 – Evolving Insights on Men’s Needs 06:30 – Addressing Modern Challenges for Men 08:00 – The Importance of Validation for Men 09:30 – Engaging Men in Spiritual Discussions 11:00 – Check-in Practices for Men’s Groups 12:30 – Spectrogram Activity Reflection 14:00 – Addressing the “I’m Fine” Mentality 15:30 – Entry Points for Men’s Retreats 17:00 – Importance of Purpose and Meaning 18:00 – Introduction to “Experience Jesus Really” 19:30 – The Trilogy of John’s Books 20:30 – The Need for Experiential Faith 22:00 – The Impact of Internet Life on Spirituality 23:30 – Seeking Rest in God 25:00 – The Role of Desire in Spiritual Life 26:30 – The Concept of Spiritual Amphibians 28:00 – Inviting God into Daily Life 29:30 – The Importance of Mysticism in Faith 31:00 – Understanding Mysticism in Christianity 32:30 – The Need for Experiential Connection with God 34:00 – Ordinary Mystics and Childlike Wonder 35:30 – The Relationship Between Left and Right Brain 37:00 – The Role of Relational Connection in Faith 38:30 – Reframing Mysticism as Experiential Faith 40:00 – Finding God in Creation 41:30 – Communing with God Through Worship 43:00 – Conclusion and Final Thoughts on Experiencing God The award-winning Leading Saints Podcast is one of the top independent Latter-day Saints podcasts as part of nonprofit

We talk a lot about our spiritual life, but how do we move from words to experience? From the head to the heart? To a place of knowledge to deep bone belief? Author and spiritual guide John Eldredge gives us questions to ask and practices to put in place that will help us encounter God's presence in the here and now. An incredible conversation, you WILL NOT want to miss what John says to those of us who have been living out our faith for years. We can still experience Jesus in a fresh way. You may know John from his bestselling book Wild at Heart or you may be familiar with the Pause app intended to help us in our spiritual journey. Whether you're familiar with the Eldredge name or are just being introduced to this seasoned spiritual leader, you will want to press play and listen in on how God is beckoning you back to him and how you can say "yes". FIND MORE ABOUT JOHN ELDREDGE John Eldredge Book- Experience Jesus. Really A FEW THINGS MENTIONED Interior Freedom by Jacque Philippe Union with Christ Book William Augusto -Worship Instrumental Music Pause App John's Books - The Secret Romance - Wild at Heart Bible Verse Ephesians 3 QUESTIONS TO HELP YOU RISE Ask God what issue are we working on right now? What is taking space in your heart that isn't allowing room for God? Take a minute to practice benevolent detachment LET'S CONNECT! Did you like this episode? Let us know and leave a review on itunes or share it with a friend. Or message us on Instagram – we'd love to hear from you! Get the Daily Dozen Checklist -12 habits that will immediately make you happier and health

Join Stasi and her favorite guest – her husband, John – for an encouraging and insightful conversation about living in daily, intimate communion with Jesus. Drawing from John’s new book, Experience Jesus. Really. , they share personal stories and wisdom from the saints, revealing how God’s presence is not just a metaphor but a reality available to all who seek Him. If you're longing for deeper experiences with God and all that is available, this episode is for you. Open your heart and step into the invitation of deeper communion with God. ….. SHOW NOTES: ….. Go deeper with John’s newest book Experience Jesus. Really: Finding Refuge, Strength, and Wonder through Everyday Encounters with God https://amzn.to/4jEwBZ7 VERSES: Revelation 3:20 (NLT) – Look! I stand at the door and knock. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in, and we will share a meal together as friends. Hebrews 4:16 (NLT) – Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Ephesians 2:6 (NLT) – And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, Psalm 91:1-2 (NLT) – Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust. John 15:4–5 (NLT) – Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. John 6:35 (NLT) – Then Jesus declared, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty. ….. Don’t Miss Out on the Next Episode – Subscribe for Free Subscribe using your favorite podcast app: Spotify Podcasts – https://spoti.fi/42SsOip Apple Podcasts – https://apple.co/42E0oZ1 Google Podcasts – http://wahe.art/3M81kxL Amazon Music & Audible – https://amzn.to/3M9u6hJ

Today on the show, we’re answering the question, “How do I pray in the winter?”John Eldredge is back and officially becomes a member of the Hall of Fun! His spiritual leadership and wisdom is so helpful and you’re going to want to take notes from this one for sure. He also has a new book releasing tomorrow called Experiencing Jesus. Really . If you’re following along in your TSF Seasons Guidebook, we’re on page 23. And as always, if you still want to get a Guidebook, you can find it at anniefdowns.com/seasons. . . . . . Find the show notes here Want to watch this episode on YouTube? Head on over to our YouTube Channel and be sure to like and subscribe! . . . . . Join our Patreon community Single Purpose League as we tackle the question: What is my single purpose and what is my purpose while single? . . . . . Sign up to receive the AFD Week In Review email and ask questions to future guests! #thatsoundsfunpodcast . . . . . Thank you to our sponsors! Our Place : Visit fromourplace.com/TSF and use code TSF for 10% off sitewide. Better Help : Visit BetterHelp.com/THATSOUNDSFUN today to get 10% off your first month. Lumen : Go to lumen.me/TSF to get 20% off your Lumen. AG1 : AG1 is offering new subscribers a FREE $76 gift when you sign up. You’ll get a Welcome Kit, a bottle of D3K2 AND 5 free travel packs in your first box. So make sure to check out DrinkAG1.com/soundsfun to get this offer! "I Want to Trust You, But I Don't" Bible study : Learn more and watch Session 1 for free at HarperChristianResources.com/trust . . . . . . If you’d like to partner with Annie as a sponsor for the That Sounds Fun podcast, fill out our Advertise With Us form! . . . . . If you liked this episode you may also like these: Episode 499: Brooke Ligertwood on the Uniqueness of Worship on This Side of Heaven Episode 210: John Eldredge Episode 281: John Eldredge + A Year of the Pandemic Episode 388: John Eldredge + Resilient Resting Well This Summer with John Eldredge – Episode 898 NYTimes bestselling Christian author, speaker, and host of popular Christian podcast, That Sounds Fun Podcast, Annie F. Downs shares with you some of her favorite things: new books, faith conversations, entertainers not to miss, and interviews with friends. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why is seeking refuge in God's love essential during these turbulent times? Today, Stasi invites her beloved husband, John, to explore just that. They delve into his upcoming book, which will be released in February 2025, to talk about living in the safety of the shelter of God's love. They also highlight the vital practice of offering radical forgiveness and avoiding bitterness. Friends, our God’s divine love serves as a sanctuary and is the only safe place for our hearts. We flourish under the canopy of his love. In today’s podcast, we'll explore how to cultivate this in our daily lives and relationships by practicing tangible ways to stay tucked in. ….. SHOW NOTES: ….. VERSES: 1 John 4:7–8; 15–17 (NLT) — Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. … All who declare that Jesus is the Son of God have God living in them, and they live in God. We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love. God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them. And as we live in God, our love grows more perfect. So we will not be afraid on the day of judgment, but we can face him with confidence because we live like Jesus here in this world. Psalm 91:1–2 (NLT) — Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty. This I declare about the Lord: He alone is my refuge, my place of safety; he is my God, and I trust him. Philippians 1:9 (NLT) — I pray that your love will overflow more and more, and that you will keep on growing in knowledge and understanding. Deuteronomy 4:24 (NLT) — The Lord your God is a devouring fire; he is a jealous God. Hebrews 12:25–29 (NLT) — Be careful that you do not refuse to listen to the One who is speaking. For if the people of Israel did not escape when they refused to listen to Moses, the earthly messenger, we will certainly not escape if we reject the One who speaks to us from heaven! When God spoke from Mount Sinai his voice shook the earth, but now he makes another promise: “Once again I will shake not only the earth but the heavens also.” This means that all of creation will be shaken and removed, so that only unshakable things will remain. Since we are receiving a Kingdom that is unshakable, let us be thankful and please God by worshiping him with holy fear and awe. For our God is a devouring fire. ….. RESOURCES: Wild at Heart Podcast – Spotify: https://wahe.art/3xsHmuv Wild at Heart Podcast – YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WildatHeartOfficial John’s New Book – Title TBD – Releases February 2025; visit WildAtHeart.org for updates The Awakened Heart by Gerald May – https://amzn.to/4b5ApNP ….. Don’t Miss Out on the Next Episode – Subscribe for Free Subscribe using your favorite podcast app: Spotify Podcasts – https://spoti.fi/42SsOip Apple Podcasts – https://apple.co/42E0oZ1 Google Podcasts – http://wahe.art/3M81kxL Amazon Music & Audible – https://amzn.to/3M9u6hJ

On episode 248 I am joined by John Eldredge. John is an author, a counsellor, and a teacher. He is also president of Wild at Heart, a ministry devoted to helping people discover the heart of God, recover their own hearts in God's love, and learn to live in God's Kingdom. John grew up in the suburbs of Los Angeles (which he hated), and spent his boyhood summers on his grandfather’s cattle ranch in eastern Oregon (which he loved). John met his wife, Stasi, in high school (in drama class). But their romance did not begin until they each came to faith in Christ, after high school. John earned his undergraduate degree in Theatre at Cal Poly, and directed a theatre company in Los Angeles for several years before moving to Colorado with Focus on the Family, where he taught at the Focus on the Family Institute. John earned his master’s degree in Counselling from Colorado Christian University, under the direction of Larry Crabb and Dan Allender. He worked as a counsellor in private practice before launching Wild at Heart in 2000. John and Stasi live in Colorado Springs with their three sons (Samuel, Blaine, and Luke), their golden retriever (Oban), and two horses (Whistle and Kokolo). While all of this is factually true, it somehow misses describing an actual person. He loves the outdoors passionately, and all beauty, Shakespeare, bow hunting, a good cigar, anything having to do with adventure, poetry, March Madness, working in the shop, fly fishing, classic rock, the Tetons, fish tacos, George MacDonald, green tea, buffalo steaks, dark chocolate, wild and open places, horses running, and too much more to name. In this episode you will hear: 00:00 intro 02:58 why don’t need another men’s book 04:48 the stages of the masculine journey - the boy, cowboy, warrior, lover, king, and sage 08:08 the two fundamental needs of little boys 10:08 it is important to discover for yourself that you have got what it takes 14:08 a cry for a father's engagement 18:38 Ryan’s testimony 23:08 why can’t we trust men? 26:58 the cure for the narcissistic life 28:48 Christ the Warrior 32:38 the tools of the enemy 38:58 you need to tell each other your story 42:08 getting hooked up to the one who knows you best and loves you most 45:38 God heals trauma 50:18 John’s Heartprint Those with ears, let them hear. Always love Ryan Connect with John Website: https://wildatheart.org/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/wildatheart/ Podcast: https://wildatheart.org/podcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/LoveGodLiveFree Books: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Books-John-Eldredge/s?rh=n%3A266239%2Cp_27%3AJohn+Eldredge Connect with Always Better than Yesterday Website: https://abty.co.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alwaysbetterthanyesterdayuk/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/abty/ Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/weareabty Join our mail list here for exclusive content here: https://abty.co.uk/contact Sign up for our coaching here: https://abty.co.uk/coaching Thank you to our sponsor

Psalm 73 says that God is the strength of our hearts. But how do we draw from that strength to replenish our tired souls? John Eldredge joins Stasi on her podcast today to share the good news that God's provision for these challenging days is available, and it is absolutely free. John lets us in on what compelled him to write his new book, Resilient: Restoring Your Weary Soul in These Turbulent Times , and offer its incredible heart-strengthening tools. We all need a deeper life with God; we all need to tap into the resources of his Kingdom to receive significant replenishment for the days ahead. John shows us how. SHOW NOTES: Books: Resilient by John Eldredge — Releases June 7, 2022 Get Your Life Back by John Eldredge Pause App The 30-Days to Resilience experience is found within the Pause App Verses: Ephesians 3:16 (NIV) — I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, Psalm 73:26 (NIV) — My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. John 7:37-38 (NIV) — On the last and greatest day of the festival, Jesus stood and said in a loud voice, “Let anyone who is thirsty come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as Scripture has said, rivers of living water will flow from within them.” Ezekiel 7:1-12 (NIV) — …, so where the river flows everything will live. Revelation 21&22 (NIV) — (Rev 22:1) Then the angel showed me the river of the water of life, as clear as crystal, flowing from the throne of God and of the Lamb John 4:4-42 (NIV) — The Woman of Samaria/Woman at the well: (v. 14) “...but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him shall never be thirsty; but the water that I will give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up to eternal life.” John 14 (NIV) — entire chapter; Jesus Prepares His Disciples Nehemiah 8:10 (NIV) — …, for the joy of the Lord is your strength. Luke 21:32 (NIV) — “Be careful, or your hearts will be weighed down with carousing, drunkenness and the anxieties of life, and that day will close on you suddenly like a trap.

In this bonus episode I talk with John Eldredge about the story of how God used my wallet to speak to me.

John Eldredge is an author, counselor, and teacher. He earned his undergraduate degree at Cal Poly and his master’s degree in Counseling from Colorado Christian University. John worked as a counselor in private practice before launching Ransomed Heart—a ministry devoted to helping people discover the heart of God, recover their own hearts in God's love, and learn to live in God's Kingdom. John and his wife Stasi live in Colorado Springs. Highlights 05:50 Where the ministry began 9:30 It isn't enough for a man to be kind or nice 11:30 Every boy is asking, "Do I have what it takes?" and when they don't get an answer, they are still searching as an adult 13:20 The mood of the room is set by the leader, and you lead by vulnerability and by inviting them to an adventure: boredom is what is killing men in church 16:00 Group retreats take men into their own hearts and back into their own stories to where they lost heart 19:00 Unplugging and getting away from the distraction is important to getting more out of the program 21:35 Writing his most recent book, Get Your Life Back: Everyday Practices for a World Gone Mad—the pace of life was becoming too much for him so he began to look for ways to get away from the chaos in the midst of living 24:05 Are you giving more of your attention to what's happening in the world than you are to God? The war in the world is for our attention; this increases stress, which even wears us down physically 26:00 Your attention gets taken away from other things, the things that help you relax and connect with others; put your phone down 27:15 Surrender: Knowledge gives us a sense of control, of safety and security, but God wants to be our security 29:00 Disconnect and become human again: putting away the phone releases us to perform better and to be a human being unplugged from technology and doing real things 30:15 The big lie: technology was going to give us more margin to do the things we love, but instead it has connected us to the chaos of information, fear, and anxiety 32:20 We have a divided attention and a divided affection, but we can learn to create soulful space for a little bit of time each day 35:00 John found he couldn't even play with his grandchildren for even a few minutes without turning to his phone and checking it 35:55 Our souls are on empathy overload: benevolent detachment is required to disconnect from everything and give it back to God (1 Peter 5) because we are not the Savior 39:00 App: The One Minute Pause 41:00 Transitional spaces: Jesus spent three days—walking—to get from one place to another, and we need to find the downtime and the transitions 44:10 Restating belief: Do you have a confident sense that God is in control of the universe? Write your fundamental beliefs so you can go back to them as an anchor 47:00 Take specific, deliberate steps to get yourself back to being human again—normal things that let your soul calm down and be able to recenter and hear God Links Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul, by John Eldredge Get Your Life Back: Everyday Practices for a World Gone Mad, by John Eldredge Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman’s Soul, by John and Stasi Eldredge Ransomed Heart Podcast The One Minute Pause app

This is timely. In the midst of a global pandemic, one of the stock market's worst weeks, and fear invading many corners of our hearts, bestselling author, John Eldredge, brings a critical message to the podcast table this week. “Your soul is never meant to carry all of this," he said. "The human soul is not designed for these conditions.” It isn't. We are not meant to carry the insanity of a broken world. So how do we engage it with maturity? Learn with us as we talk through a message that literally changed (and is changing) our lives. //: Highlights: “The world that we live in gets everybody spun up … emotionally, physically and spiritually. We want relief. The quick relief is to reach for the bag of cookies or the bottle of scotch or binge watch your favorite show. But relief is very different from restoration. When you’re done [with relief] you don’t actually feel any better.” —John Eldredge “Maturity is not an option because of the gnarly hour that we live in. Union with God—cultivating it as a life goal—is the invitation.” —John Eldredge “We have neglected our souls … The rescue for me has been to love Jesus in the midst of my suffering.” --John Eldredge //: Do the Next Thing: John's book Get Your Life Back is here . That Pause App that is wrecking us? Find it here . For More? Here .

Feeling burdened, weary, tired, or heavy-hearted today? Try the One-Minute Pause! Here’s how it works: Set a timer for 60 seconds. Take a few deep breaths. Then, verbally release the weight of what you are carrying. “I release my stress or worry over my job to You, God.” “I release my fear over my child’s future to You, God.” “I let it go.” Literally let yourself breathe out your fear, stress, worry, tension and breathe in God’s care and carrying of You. This simple practice isn’t going to solve all of your problems, but it can certainly help you feel a little calmer and remind you that you don’t have to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. God sees you. He cares about you. And He is big enough to carry your heaviest burdens. You are not alone. Need more encouragement to stop feeling burned out and get your joy back? Be sure to listen to this week’s podcast episode with John Eldredge. We talked about simple, sustainable practices (like the One Minute Pause) he implemented in his life a few years ago when he found himself feeling completely burned out, tethered to his phone and email, and unable to really stop and savor his life. In This Episode: [00:57] I ask John Eldredge to introduce himself and share more about his books and ministry. [04:43] What inspired John to write his newest book? [06:11] John talks about realizing that his soul was running dry. [07:50] We discuss how hard was it for him to untether himself from his phone and email and the basic steps he took to get his job back. [11:31] Learn about how the One Minute Pause has impacted John’s day. [13:56] The One Minute Pause isn't just for adults; you could do it with your kids, too! Check out the One Minute Pause App . [17:08] Benevolent Detachment -- what does this mean? [22:59] Why naming your stressors out loud and letting them go helps turn your day and mindset around. [23:44] John encourages us with practical ways to drink beauty in for your soul. Get Your Life Back by John Eldredge John Eldredge - Ransomed Heart Ministries One Minute Pause App CrystalPaine.com MoneySavingMom.com YourBloggingMentor.com My Instagram account (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!) Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal@moneysavingmom.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

John Eldredge: On the Stages of Manhood, the Dangers of Social Media, and Why You Should Get out in Nature John Eldredge is a storyteller of his own and others’ journeys. His own path has gone from brokenness to becoming wholehearted. It’s the story of a kid who was into drugs, got kicked out of high school, encountered Jesus, and became a healing force in the lives of others. As a counselor, he’s heard the stories of many who were seeking to restore that which was broken – hearts, lives, relationships. And through their many stories, he’s observed truths and gained insight about the human condition. John has identified areas where the culture has failed in its preparation of boys for manhood. Gone are important rites of passages and the challenges, risks, and dangers of cultures past. Our digitized, sedentary, climate-controlled lives are leaving behind a culture bankrupt of true masculinity. Boys and men are living unfulfilled lives, and we, as a culture, need to make some structural changes. John identifies six stages of a man’s life: Beloved son (boyhood) – A young boy needs to know that his father delights in him. Cowboy stage (begins at adolescence) – A time of adventure, hard work, and taking risks Warrior stage (around age 19, early 20s) – Young men need a mission, a cause, something worth fighting for. This stage is best entered before the Lover stage. Lover stage (20s to 30s) – The awakening of the heart. This could manifest as a love of poetry, nature, music…and eventually romance. King stage (40s to 60s) – At this stage, the character of the man and his wholeheartedness has been shaped enough to be entrusted with power, money, and influence. This is a beautiful, demanding stage that requires wisdom and selflessness. Sage stage (60ish and beyond) – The silver-haired sage steps aside to let younger men carry the load, but he’s sought after for his wisdom and counsel. Also in today’s episode, John shares his opinion on the potentially devastating effects of social media. The amount of data coming at us is “assaultive on the human soul.” The research is conclusive: envy, depression, and anxiety increase proportionally to one’s intake and use of social media. John also urges listeners to get out in nature, to “experience the world that your soul was made for.” Nature has a healing effect on both the body and the spirit. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: About John’s background About the stages of manhood Tips for how parents – especially fathers – should interact with their sons in the Beloved Son and Cowboy stages About the work of Ransomed Heart John’s advice for what to look for in a church Why we should limit social media and spend more time outdoors Connect with John: Ransomed Heart Ministries Ransomed Heart on Facebook Mentioned in this episode: Francis Schaeffer C.S. Lewis Nicholas Carr’s The Shallows: What the Internet is Doing to our Brains Fathered by God by John Eldredge Robert Bly Richard Louv’s The Last Child in the Woods Quotes “The unique ability of Jesus Christ to heal humanity was a huge piece of what drew me there.” “I knew that if I ever discovered what was true about life and what was true about the world, it wouldn’t just be true in one category, it would be true across the arts, the sciences, culture, nature…” “Reality comes to us in the shape of narrative. It comes in the shape of story. This is enormously hopeful in helping you sort out the story that you’re living and the story of your life and what your contribution is.” “Nature is the habitat for human souls.” “Experience the world that your soul was made for.” Every man is fueled by the question, “Do I have what it takes?” The search for the answer to that question fuels what men do – or refuse to do – every day.

Discipleship. It’s a word Christ followers are probably familiar with, especially if they’ve spent any time around a church. But when we try to explain it, a wide range of descriptions, categories and even practices emerge. Is it really that complicated? Or is discipleship actually much simpler? Join Rick as he kicks off a month long series on discipleship with an interview with special guest John Eldredge (bestselling author of Wild at Heart). During the interview, Rick and John discuss the difference between discipleship as a transfer of information and discipleship a pursuit of falling deeper in love with God. Have you joined the Pigs? We're a group of friends ready to go all in with Jesus--to live a life that's “free indeed” because we’re wholly dependent on him. Join us for exclusive behind-the-scenes insights, opportunities to make your voice matter, prayer support, and connections to other Pigs inside our private Facebook group. Join Here- www.mylifetree.com/pratj-member-sign-up/ Related: (Now Available) Spiritual Grit- www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Grit-En…nce/dp/1470750899 The Unreasonable Jesus by Thomas Christianson- www.group.com/product/9781470748…easonable-jesus.do Jesus-Centered Bible- www.mylifetree.com/jesus-centered-bible-shop-page/ The Jesus-Centered Life by Rick Lawrence- www.mylifetree.com/shop/the-jesus-centered-life/ Wild At Heart by John Eldrege- https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Heart-Revised-Updated-Discovering/dp/1400200393/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1535665200&sr=8-1&keywords=john+eldredge+books Beautiful Outlaw by John Eldrege - https://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Outlaw-Experiencing-Extravagant-Personality/dp/1455525707/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1535665200&sr=8-3&keywords=john+eldredge+books Waking The Dead by John Eldrege - https://www.amazon.com/Waking-Dead-Glory-Heart-Fully/dp/0785288295/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8&qid=1535665200&sr=8-7&keywords=john+eldredge+books All John Eldredge Books - https://www.amazon.com/s?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=john+eldridge+books&sprefix=John+Eld%2Caps%2C169&crid=2KWPO6TJN2KA9